{"id":118,"date":"2016-10-10T02:49:23","date_gmt":"2016-10-10T02:49:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/?p=118"},"modified":"2016-10-10T02:49:23","modified_gmt":"2016-10-10T02:49:23","slug":"dads-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/?p=118","title":{"rendered":"Dad&#8217;s Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Originally published on genealogyatheart.blogspot.com on 21 Jun 2015.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Father&#8217;s Day!\u00a0\u00a0Whenever I think of Father&#8217;s Day I think about my grandfather, Ivan &#8220;John&#8221; Koss.<\/p>\n<table class=\"tr-caption-container\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" align=\"center\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td data-blogger-escaped-style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-gJ4CZidPU-A\/VX3EK8nMt3I\/AAAAAAAAAKM\/lUq4IuoMa9c\/s1600\/gr.jpg\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-gJ4CZidPU-A\/VX3EK8nMt3I\/AAAAAAAAAKM\/lUq4IuoMa9c\/s320\/gr.jpg\" width=\"320\" height=\"315\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"text-align: center;\">Gramps and Me<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>I met my husband a year and a half after my Gramps had died. \u00a0That saddens me as I think they would have really liked knowing each other. \u00a0Both of them, I would rate, as exceptional dads. Selfless, compassionate, funny and responsible both shared a\u00a0love of\u00a0music, food\u00a0and hard work.<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>My Gramps was extremely thrifty, perhaps because he was an immigrant who had weathered the Great Depression. \u00a0My first bike was a many time hand-me-down from my older cousins but he wanted to make it like new for me. \u00a0He spray painted it green, my then favorite color.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<table class=\"tr-caption-container\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" align=\"center\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td data-blogger-escaped-style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/--NpgbtAoVSQ\/VX3Eugjz90I\/AAAAAAAAAKU\/dkp3KB9H3KU\/s1600\/2.jpg\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/--NpgbtAoVSQ\/VX3Eugjz90I\/AAAAAAAAAKU\/dkp3KB9H3KU\/s200\/2.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"178\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"text-align: center;\">I was the 5th in the family to use this bike<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<div>\n<p>My parents were divorced and we didn&#8217;t have a lot of money so when bikes evolved, Gramps updated the one above with a banana seat and cruise handlebars.\u00a0 I thought I was so cool!<\/p>\n<p class=\"separator\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-9k0NINMrju8\/VX3FXae_7zI\/AAAAAAAAAKg\/tJ_F-IDY44E\/s1600\/bike.jpg\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-9k0NINMrju8\/VX3FXae_7zI\/AAAAAAAAAKg\/tJ_F-IDY44E\/s1600\/bike.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"separator\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><span data-blogger-escaped-style=\"text-align: left;\">Gramps put up with my love of animals and never complained. \u00a0I can&#8217;t explain how strays always happened to find me:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"separator\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-jTGChMyKXsI\/VX3HeoJnNKI\/AAAAAAAAAKs\/4zEuALOSHgE\/s1600\/pet.jpg\" data-blogger-escaped-style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-jTGChMyKXsI\/VX3HeoJnNKI\/AAAAAAAAAKs\/4zEuALOSHgE\/s1600\/pet.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If we couldn&#8217;t locate the owner the animal had a very nice life in our home. \u00a0I&#8217;m not talking about just cats and dogs. \u00a0He let me keep a chicken, parakeet, frogs and a snake. \u00a0He even let the snake hibernate in the basement in an aquarium. \u00a0We let it go after the winter thaw.<\/p>\n<p>Gramps was inventive.\u00a0\u00a0The man loved tools and could fix anything. He took an old vacuum cleaner and turned it into a handheld model to use to clean the carpeting on the stairs. \u00a0I wish we still had it as it worked better than anything on the market today. \u00a0He let me mess around with his tools and play store.<\/p>\n<p>During the months when the ice cream shop was open, Gramps would take me for a Black Cow &#8211; a root beer float, every Friday. \u00a0When I was really small he&#8217;d have to pick me up to put me on the stool and I remember how proud I was when I could climb up on my own.<\/p>\n<p>Gramps had a wooden leg due to a steel mill accident.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t know how he climbed a ladder to paint the eaves as the house was 2 stories!\u00a0 He never let his handicap get in the way of dancing which he was quite good at.\u00a0 Gramps was also nearly blind.\u00a0 He had cataracts that were inoperable for some reason and yet, he never complained.<\/p>\n<p>Each Father&#8217;s Day I bought the same gift for Gramps &#8211; a can of Skoal. \u00a0I always used my allowance to make the purchase at Dickenson&#8217;s Drug Store. \u00a0Gramps\u00a0would say it was the best gift he ever got.<\/p>\n<p>Gramps passed away 45 years ago but the lessons he taught me are with me still.<\/p>\n<p>Dad&#8217;s and Grand Dad&#8217;s make a tremendous impression on youth. \u00a0Today, Dad&#8217;s get beat up in the media as the butt of jokes. \u00a0If you are lucky to have a wonderful father figure in your life make sure he&#8217;s appreciated or remembered-he deserves it!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Originally published on genealogyatheart.blogspot.com on 21 Jun 2015. Happy Father&#8217;s Day!\u00a0\u00a0Whenever I think of Father&#8217;s Day I think about my grandfather, Ivan &#8220;John&#8221; Koss. Gramps and Me I met my husband a year and a half after my Gramps had died. \u00a0That saddens me as I think they would have really liked knowing each other. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/?p=118\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dad&#8217;s Day&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[89,90],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-stories","tag-fathers-day","tag-john-koss"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=118"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":119,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions\/119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=118"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=118"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=118"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}