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Photo by Lori Samuelson April <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Merry Christmas, dearest readers!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Christmas is a season of joy, wonder, and if you\u2019re paying attention, quiet miracles. I have a holiday story to share that has just unfolded in my own family. Those of you who work in genealogy already understand that the strange, the coincidental, and the improbable often walk hand in hand with real life. Still, what I\u2019m about to share feels like something more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of our adult children has always wanted to be a mother. For years, she prepared for a child she hoped would someday be hers, cross-stitching bibs, knitting booties, quilting blankets, and crafting tiny handmade treasures. She remained hopeful, positive, and forward-thinking throughout it all. As her mom, though, my heart often ached. No matter how old your child is, it\u2019s painful to watch them work so hard for something that doesn\u2019t seem to be coming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve written before about my Granny, my Croatian immigrant great-grandmother, who, in the late 1800s, made a pilgrimage from her small village of Dubranec to Marija Bistrica, a Roman Catholic shrine believed to be a site of miracles. When my husband and I visited the area years later, I was stunned by the distance she traveled. The terrain is mountainous, and for a woman of that era, the journey there and back would have been difficult and dangerous.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yet Granny believed in miracles. She was hoping for a child who would live. According to my grandmother, Granny\u2019s daughter, triplets had died. In truth, they were likely three separate pregnancies. English was their second language, and surviving records show two boys who died in different years. I suspect the third was a miscarriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While standing in that church during my visit, I lit a candle for my own child. It couldn\u2019t hurt, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Last January, after modern medicine could not help her conceive, adoption became the next step. A consultation with a lawyer in May was discouraging. The message was blunt: if<\/em> an adoption happened, and that was a very big if<\/em>, it would likely take three to five years. Her age worked against her. International adoption was explored, but it was even more expensive and less promising. It all felt like a closed door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Undaunted, she decided to become a foster mom. She was told she\u2019d likely be placed with a teenager. Her response? That was fine. And if that young person someday became a parent, she would give them all the baby items she had lovingly made over the years. Generosity, it turns out, is another of her gifts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was approved as a foster mom the day before Thanksgiving and prepared a room for whoever might arrive. Then, last week, she received a call: would she be interested in a newborn? If so, she needed to attend an interview on 22 December. Of course she was interested but getting away from work was no small thing. In her profession, you don\u2019t simply take the day off. With help from a few trusted colleagues, her schedule was carefully shifted so she could attend the meeting during her lunch hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She was told she would hear back the following day. Instead, four hours later, the phone rang. She was informed that she was a new mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The day she was selected came one day after my Granny\u2019s birthdate. Go figure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next day, after paperwork, we met our newest family member. Our daughter named her after Granny, with a middle name that also carries deep family meaning another story for another time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And yet, the coincidences continued.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had never been inside this particular hospital before, but I knew it well. When we relocated from Florida, I had inexplicably chosen a hotel right next to it. Every time I needed to access the main highway, I turned into that hospital\u2019s parking lot. Later, I realized it was the same hospital system my paternal grandfather had used when he lived in the city.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So there was a thread connecting my maternal and paternal lines but it didn\u2019t end there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we entered the NICU, I noticed the baby\u2019s whiteboard listed a very distinctive first name: the name of my husband\u2019s maternal grandmother. I asked if that was the baby\u2019s name. The nurse said no. One of the staff had simply thought of it, without knowing why, and wanted something to call her until an adoptive mom was chosen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That name belonged to the woman who had, in many ways, raised my husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t pretend to understand how all of this came together especially during a season known for wonder. I only know that we are profoundly grateful to have this strong little angel in our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We are especially thankful for the biological mother, the DCS and NICU staff, and the community members who have stepped forward with support. If you\u2019re so inclined, we would be grateful if you\u2019d keep this little one in your prayers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Merry Christmas, dearest readers! Christmas is a season of joy, wonder, and if you\u2019re paying attention, quiet miracles. I have a holiday story to share that has just unfolded in my own family. Those of you who work in genealogy already understand that the strange, the coincidental, and the improbable often walk hand in hand … Continue reading “Our Christmas Miracle”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[101,1358,1062],"class_list":["post-3704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-stories","tag-croatia","tag-granny","tag-marija-bistrica"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3704"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3704\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3708,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3704\/revisions\/3708"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}