{"id":3821,"date":"2026-05-02T18:38:14","date_gmt":"2026-05-02T18:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/?p=3821"},"modified":"2026-05-02T18:38:14","modified_gmt":"2026-05-02T18:38:14","slug":"when-i-know-im-right-replaces-research-a-troubling-trend-in-genealogy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.genealogyatheart.com\/?p=3821","title":{"rendered":"When \u201cI Know I\u2019m Right\u201d Replaces Research: A Troubling Trend in Genealogy"},"content":{"rendered":"
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In the past two weeks, I\u2019ve received four emails from individuals new to genealogy either questioning my public tree on Ancestry.com or inquiring about my professional services.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each one carried the same message: \u201cThe information you have is wrong.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let me start with something I say often: no genealogical tree is 100% accurate. Until every individual in every line has been DNA tested and even then, interpreted correctly, there will always be some uncertainty. That\u2019s simply the nature of this work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But these interactions weren\u2019t thoughtful challenges or collaborative inquiries. They were something else entirely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They were confrontational, dismissive, and, frankly, uninformed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first individual demanded proof of a family adoption story. I recommended DNA testing. They had already tested but refused to share the results and insisted I find documentary proof.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the problem: no records exist for that place and time.<\/strong> None. The best available evidence is a census record placing the child in the same household at three months old and still there decades later. That wasn\u2019t enough. I was told I didn\u2019t know what I was doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

DNA would likely resolve the question but there\u2019s a reason it wasn\u2019t being shared. DNA doesn\u2019t lie. And when people avoid it, that usually tells you something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The second email was even more puzzling. I was instructed to delete an individual from my tree because it was \u201cmessing up [her] DNA matches.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We didn\u2019t match.
The individual in question is on my husband\u2019s line.
She didn\u2019t match him either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her conclusion? A child who died young actually moved to Illinois, changed his name completely, married, and died in the 1940s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her evidence?An Ancestry hint from ten years ago that only matched a birthdate. No sources showed a name change. No documentation. No records connecting the identities. Just confidence that in the entirety of Sweden, only 1 male was born on the same day. I\u2019m not making this up!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I asked basic genealogical questions such as death certificate? marriage record? naturalization? she didn\u2019t understand what I meant. She had been researching for a few months and was certain her conclusion was correct because a now deceased relative had believed it 10 years ago. I declined to alter a fully sourced line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The third interaction was more familiar but still frustrating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A man insisted I had the wrong parents for his great-grandfather. His proof was a death certificate, with information provided by the son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I explained what experienced genealogists know: informants can be wrong. Memory fails. Grief clouds details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In contrast, I had a letter written by the man himself shortly before his death, naming his parents and explaining his childhood circumstances. I even provided the citation so he could verify it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His response? \u201cYou\u2019re still wrong. Remove it.\u201d He also admitted he didn\u2019t know how to locate the record I referred to online. Sigh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That was the point where I made a decision: I removed the entire line from my public tree. Not because I was wrong but because the interaction wasn\u2019t worth the time it would take to defend it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final exchange involved a demand to remove a death record because \u201ceveryone has it wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No documentation was provided. Instead, the argument rested on a theory built from DNA matches and a guess involving a child being banished to another colony 300+ years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Could there be a connection? Possibly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Was there proof? No.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I tried to guide her toward alternative explanations, such as descent from a sibling, she wasn\u2019t interested. She didn\u2019t want to explore the truth. She wanted confirmation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So I\u2019ll ask the question plainly: Are you experiencing this shift, too?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For over 25 years, I\u2019ve found most genealogists to be curious, collaborative, and open to learning. But recently, something feels different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

More certainty.
Less evidence.
And a growing resistance to being wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had a conversation about this with my husband, who pointed me to research from the National Literacy Institute suggesting that a significant portion of U.S. adults read below a sixth-grade level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As a former reading teacher, that stopped me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because genealogy requires more than reading, it requires interpretation, analysis, and the ability to weigh conflicting evidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Without those skills, it becomes easy to mistake a hint for proof\u2026 or a belief for a conclusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that brings me to where I am now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve always believed in keeping my tree public. I don\u2019t \u201cown\u201d my ancestors. I\u2019ve invested time and money into my research because I wanted to know the truth, not because I expected anything in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019ll be honest: I\u2019m reconsidering. Not because of disagreement. Disagreement is part of good research. But because of something else entirely:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A refusal to learn.
A rejection of standards.
And an insistence that confidence equals correctness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In every one of these cases, I recommended learning about the Genealogical Proof Standard<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not one person was interested. That\u2019s the real concern. Because if we lose the standard\u2026we don\u2019t just lose accuracy, we lose genealogy itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you’re thinking this is an AI problem, it isn’t. Genealogists have always worked with flawed records, mistaken informants, and misleading clues.
What is<\/em> new is the speed at which conclusions are formed and the confidence with which they\u2019re defended without the work required to support them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re new to genealogy, welcome. Truly. But confidence is not evidence. And belief is not proof. Start there and you\u2019ll go far.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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